Tuesday, November 21, 2006
Sunday - 19 November 2006
Went Foodfair in the morning.. Hell Lot of ppl over at the Expo.. Singaporeans do like the word Food alot (which includes me.. :P). Popped by to the book fair next door. Bought myself 3 books to keep myself busy for the holiday..
Afternoon... Went to my friends house hang there for a short while before i accompanied my friend to the Dog Traning school.. See his dog training.. So cute.. haha..
Had Dinner at Bugis.. Walked around before we headed to HarbourFront to shopped.. Well... Nothing much happened.. Just that it was kind of a typical Singaporean's Sunday.. lols
Monday - 20 November 2006
Woke up by my sis this morning.. Okay.. i admit i went back to sleep after that.. And practically, i slept through the day.. WTH..
Anway, i want to wish JinSheng Happy 17th birthday.. Haha..
Chatted with Nelson in the Nightz.. Did some catch up with him while chatting on the MSN. Both of us felt that alot things had indeed changed..It wasnt like in the past.. Was it due to the environment that we are in ? or it was simply ourselves that have changed ? After giving some thought about it, i felt that many of times, we would tend forget those around us. Often or not, itz alwayz ue to busy schedule that we have, we would alwayz tend to forget the people around us. As we move on with our lives.. We would tend to forget the bonds we made with those who are close to us. Friendship are often lost by the fact that distance between friends are getting further and further away. Dont you feel so ?
For me.. I felt that. Due to different schedules aynd the fact that we are in different institutions, meeting up with each other had been very hard for us. The days that we used to hang out just wasnt there. The days which we used to celebrate each other birthdays were gone. The days which we used to hang out till late were gone. The days where we would cycle to Punggol End were gone. The days when we used to talk cock all the way into the night were also gone. Sometimes.. I do asked myself on whether or not im heading the right direction in life..
Those who know me well enough would know that Friends are very important to me.. Not to mention, my good buddies who had been through with me through my Secondary School days. The days which we used to share our problems.. The days we used to joke about each other.. The days we used hang out. Those.... Were the days i missed the most ever since ive stepped out of North Vista Secondary School. All that i could think of.. Were just the memories that each of us had left behind. Days like this were simply gone.. Never to be able to come back. When was the last time when all of us meet up ??? I couldnt even remeber.
Sometimes.. Dont you feel that human beings are the most selfish lot of creatures on the entire universe ? No ? But i beg to differ... Humans are the ones who are alwayz thinking about themselves. It is seldom that they would think for those around them. They would never care for the people around them.. How they felt and all that.
Yes.. It is never wrong that we should move on and carry on with our lives.. Getting to learn new things everyday.. Getting to know news friends and stuffs like that. Or even getting into a relationship. yepp.. Nothing wrong with that. But as we are constantly move on, we often forget the people we used to hang out with. Alwayz using the excuse of "Sorry.. Im Busy". Dont you feel that ? We are alwayz moving on and leaving our friends behind us. I think.. Itz time when we should stop for a while.. And let our friends have a little catch up with us before we continue to move on with life.. Isnt that the case that we should be having ? Moving on and improving our lives are important. But having your friend by your side are equally important too.
Somtimes, a 5min chat with an old friend could make you realise how much you have been "Dis-Connect" with your old pals, friends. A small gathering over a dinner could help you "win" back the time you had lost. It also reminds you of the days your have been through thick and thin.
Lastly, ask yourself these question.. When was the last time you met up with your old buddies ? When does the word F-R-I-E-N-D means to you.. Dont you think that they do play a very important role in our life ? Think about it.......
p.s. The above post have nothing to do with anybody.. Not targetting at anybody in particular. If you felt Offended or unhappy with what I've said, simply click on the 'X' found at the top right hand corner of this window.
I dreamed @ Tuesday, November 21, 2006
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